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7 Ways to Be Happy By Making Someone Else’s Day

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When it comes to ways to be happy, the path to achieving that inner and outer glow may actually start making someone else feel good.

Sound crazy? Maybe. Or perhaps figuring out ways to get happy starts by looking outside of yourself.

We will never know all that is going on in someone’s life. It is just not possible. Even people we know and love may be struggling with concerns and challenges that they don’t feel they can share.

Read on to find 7 ways to be happy simply by making someone else’s day.

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Ways to Be Happy By Making Someone Else’s Day

Here are seven easy ways to make someone’s day. They might not take away the challenges they are facing or the concerns that are on their heart, but they will let them know that someone is thinking of them.

#1: Hold a Door Open

It is so easy to rush in a door to get to an appointment or pick up a carton of milk. If you hesitate for a moment and hold the door open for even just a second, someone might just walk through it. They too may be rushing to get to a meeting due to a late start, jammed up traffic on the highway or their child’s inability to find their left shoe.

#2: Bring In a Sweet Treat to Share

If you are someone who works outside your home, you can bring something to your office. If you work at home or your office mates avoid treats, you could take something to your child’s school, a next door neighbor or even your local firemen. It doesn’t even have to be homemade. There is just something wonderful about know someone thought you would enjoy a bite or two of a sweet treat.

#3: Send a Note or a Homemade Card

There are dozens of people in our lives that would love to get a note via snail mail. Even your mail delivery person would probably enjoy be given a note of thanks or card sharing that you hope they have a great day.

#4: Simple Greeting to Friends and Strangers

Simply saying “Good Morning” or “Have a Great Day” as you pass someone can make someone’s day. It can do something for you too. Acknowledging someone with a greeting that is heartfelt takes focus off you and things you may be challenged with.

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#5: Offer to Take Their Cart

If see someone heading across the parking lot to find a place to return a grocery cart, why not offer take it for them. You may not even need the cart, but you are saving them some steps.

#6: Bouquets of Dandelions

There is something special about flowers picked by children. My son loves to pick dandelions for the lady next door. Yes, they are weeds. Yet she loves to be remembered with his tiny tokens. A single bloom from your yard or “weed” may be displayed in their kitchen window or mantle for a couple of days.

#7: Saying Thank You

Whether it is saying thank you to someone who have just served you a meal or helped your child out the car in carline or returned your phone call, simply saying thank you acknowledges that someone has provided you with service. People don’t seem to say it often these days. Maybe it is something that should be said more often.

These seven easy ways to be happy by making someone’s day don’t take a lot of time or money. They can totally change the course of someone’s day and brighten a dark moment or two. Maybe they will encourage some to try to make someone else’s day.

What will do you today to make someone else happy?

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About Tracie Nall

Tracie lives in Arizona with her husband, teen daughter, and more books than her shelves will hold. She spends her days writing and editing. Many of her words end up on her blog, From Tracie. Find Tracie on Twitter @FromTracie and on Instagram where she takes pictures of things that are yellow.

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  1. lauren says

    Lovely article and very inspiring. Kind acts from others stay in my memory longer than anything else so I keep that in mind when trying to do something good and selfless for someone.

  3. Shashee says

    These are awesome! Sometimes a fun reminder helps. I was at Albertson’s last week and an older guy walked passed and I smiled and said hello…we ended up holding a 10 minute conversation and he stated people are not as friendly as they used to be. It shocked me because I was just being me…polite….hope I made his day! 🙂

  5. Kerri @ Simplicity Interrupted says

    Yes – I love number 1! I hold the door open when leaving the train station every day, and it’s awesome to see the ripple effect because everyone after me does the same thing. I love it! Such simple things to make people smile.

  7. Eric says

    Is this an all girls club or can guys have a say to? 😀 I really like your ideas for making someone else’s day. I especially like the one about giving co-workers or neighbors sweets. *Hint* 🙂 I remember when I did construction it was an unspoken requirement that you had to bring doughnuts if you missed a work day.

    I really like how you made the article about how making someone else’s day would make your own day better, it’s like Jim Rhon said (my fave) Giving sets up the receiving process so in order to get we must first give.

    -Eric Out-

    P.S. I’m a sci-fi nerd but don’t worry I’m also the Captain of a Starship too LOL! 😉

  8. Sarah @ Sweet Miles says

    Love this, such a good reminder for all of us! It is funny how the littlest things you can do for someone else, end up making you feel so good the rest of the day 🙂

  9. Michell says

    This is right up my alley!! I’m a stickler for “doing you well”. 🙂 What we say and do has the potential to make or break someone else! Thanks so much for sharing simple, yet impacting ways to brighten someone’s day! Btw…I’m a fellow “Carolina girl”(Columbia)…Gamecock country, lol! 😀

  10. Delia @ Blog Formatting says

    Love these tips! My favourite one is greeting everybody with a hello and a smile. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve smiled at someone who looked worried or sad and got a smile back.

    Makes you think how easy it is to make someone’s day with something so simple and free! And you are so right it makes me happy when I do that!

  13. rebecca at thisfineday says

    Great reminders! It always puts a smile on my face when I run with our little labradoodle puppy in the morning. She gets so thrilled that people smile and giggle at her just from watching the pure joy of the puppy. I love that!

  14. Joy @ Yesterfood says

    Beautiful! And it really works. When I get out of my own head and try to see how I can make others’ lives a little more pleasant, it does wonders for me….and hopefully, for them. Win-win! Thank you for a lovely reminder. 🙂

    Love, Joy

  15. Kerith Stull says

    I recently paid for the person’s fast food order in the drive thru. Made me smile all day!

    But, the simplest gift of happiness….

    SMILE!!! Flash a smile at a stranger and greet them! As the mother of a 17yo daughter with moderate cerebral palsy, I especially appreciate this when we are the recipients of this precious gift! 🙂

  16. Rebecca @ Love at First Book says

    It’s always good to make someone’s day!

    At the airport recently, I was reading and a man dropped a hand-drawn portrait of me into my lap. I was shocked, looked up, but didn’t say anything. I wasn’t sure if it was creepy or a way to make my day. He signed it, so when I googled and realized he did art on the side (and didn’t try to engage me in conversation), I knew it was just a positive, generous way to make my day.

    I have it on my fridge and it makes me smile to think someone thought I was worthy of drawing.

  17. Christy@SweetandSavoring says

    As soon as I saw this headline, I smiled. Nice thing to see first thing in the morning, I must say! Now I’m excited to do some of these today, like saying good morning to random people and sending notes. So much fun 🙂