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The Worst Writing Advice I Ever Received

· Tammi Young

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You’ve probably heard again and again that writing great content is paramount to the success of your blog. Your writing is the hook that draws the audience into your world. It is the tool you use over and over again to educate, entertain, and communicate with your audience. It’s so important to get it right and the blogosphere is full of writing advice. Some of it is very helpful and improves your skills. Sadly, a lot of it is awful and does nothing to help you write your best content. Rather, it frustrates you or becomes a kind of shackle that inhibits your best writing. The worst writing advice I ever received includes six common tips.

Blogging is very different from journalism or writing college papers. Here is a collection of the worst writing advice for bloggers (plus a few good writing tips that will actually help you)!

The Worst Writing Advice I’ve Received

Writing advice runs the gamut from simple grammar and punctuation to headier advice like “live your character / scene / location” before you write about it. For bloggers, writing is a bit different than the type of writing you would do as a journalist or novelist, and some commonly accepted writing advice is actually the worst writing advice for bloggers.

1. Never Ever Use Adverbs

Why shouldn’t I use adverbs? I don’t really know. Personally, I love adverbs. I can’t get enough of them. They are superbly wonderful and add exponentially to my writing. Of course, using them too much is a problem, but you can see my point. Adverbs are interwoven into our conversations. They are part of our communication system. Adverbs have a place in our writing.

2. Avoid Adjectives

Again, why? Because they don’t belong in college papers? Have no place in business communication? This is blogging! We need adjectives to describe the food, photography, action, textures, etc. Without great adjectives, our writing is dull and boring. Want an audience of zero? Then leave out the lovely adjectives. Otherwise, incorporate adjectives into your writing to attract your reader.

3. Above All Else – Never Write How You Speak!

This tip means, write like you would in college. Boring, boring, boring. No one wants to read something that sounds like a student paper. Of course you should write like you speak when you are a blogger. Have a conversation with your audience.

4. But Always Write Like You Talk!

Huh? Now, this is just ridiculous. If we write verbatim how we speak, for most of us, our writing will be riddled with “ums”, “and”, “like, or “dude” (yeah, I say that a lot). Wouldn’t that be awful for your readers? They want to read something interesting, intriguing, educational, and intelligent. Use these phrases sparingly. Otherwise, you risk your credibility as an authority. Rather than writing “Um, you wanna make an awesome iced coffee recipe?” Write “I have a terrific iced coffee recipe you’re going to love!”

5. Avoid Passive Voice and Verbs; Never Use to Be

I frequently break this one. My favorite phrases include “be, by, being”. Why? Because that is how I talk. Unfortunately, according to one writing resource, using passive anything is a deadly sin. Oh, dear!

6. Write Every Day

This is great advice if you’re a professional writer. For the rest of us, life includes jobs, families, pets, friends, blogs, and even small businesses. We simply do not have time to write every day. Frankly, writing every day because you are told it is a “must” makes it a chore rather than something enjoyable. Writing should be (dear, dear, there’s one of those pesky “to be passive verbs”) something you enjoy and find satisfaction.

What is the BEST writing advice I’ve ever received?

  • READ! Reading is one of the best ways to expand your vocabulary, sentence structure, and writing style. Explore different types of books to develop a variety of dialogue, topics, and settings. Experiment with your writing based on what you are reading and go with what speaks to you.
  • PROOFREAD. Always, always, always.
  • SPELL CHECK. There are few things more annoying to the reader than coming across a misspelling. Do yourself, and your reader, a favor — use spell check before you publish your blog posts.

Above all else, don’t take writing advice too seriously. Find your voice and be (there it is again!) true to yourself.

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About Tammi Young

Tammi was born and raised in Northern California as have her four children. She has owned and operated an internet service company for 13 years with her husband, working as the company accountant and human resources manager. She started her handmade jewelry business, French Robin Designs, in 2012 to work out her creativity and started blogging at French Robin not long after. She loves everything creative, especially DIY furniture renovation projects, fashion, and jewelry. You can always find Tammi visiting on Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest, and Google+.

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  2. Angie says

    Thanks for reassuring my feelings towards what I write, I agree that as writers we shouldn’t be too stiff in our language in order to express our thoughts. I surely will keep an eye on those good advices.

  8. Meena says

    Great post!

    “By” is not a form of “to be.” It is a preposition and has nothing to do with verbs.
    I’m a Grammar Nazi 😉 and have taken many English courses.

    Reading books has expanded my vocabulary by leaps and bounds.